Posted in abuse, anger, attitude, birth, celebrity, charity, children, commitment, communication, compassion, control, courage, crime, culture, denial, domestic violence, Education, emotions, Fame, family, Fear, friendship, Frustration, grandchildren, health, Heart, help, Impact, kids, law enforcement, leadership, legal, life, loneliness, loss, love, loyalty, medical, mental and physical health, MONEY, news, observations, opinion, pain and misery, parenting, power, relationships, respect, safety, self doubt, support, teens, trauma, trust, tagged abused, abuser, awakening, beatings, celebrity, child, children, compassion, control, counselors, cycle of abuse, danger, denial, dependency, destroy, domestic abuse, donations, drug/alcohol abuse, Education, embarassment, emotional abuse, escalation, family, Fear, financial, freedom, friend, grandchildren, healthy relationships, help, intervention, intimidation, isolation, job loss, learned behaviors, loyalty, MONEY, neighbor, parent, parenting, parents, patterns of behavior, police, professionals, reasons, relationships, responses, safety, safety plan, secrets, self esteem, sexual abuse, shame, shelters, sibling, skills, support, tax dollars, threatened, Time, treatment, triggers, trust, unhealthy, used cell phones, verbal abuse, victim, violence on March 12, 2009|
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This subject is never a pleasant one. No one likes to acknowledge domestic abuse is a way of life…especially if it is happening within their own life. Unfortunately, domestic abuse happens every day in a multitude of ways. It doesn’t just happen in the lives of the poor, the rich, or the celebrity world; even though, that is often the stories that we hear about…those who are famous. We must awaken to the facts of domestic abuse; it is often learned behaviors that are used to control another person…either with intimidation, physical violence, emotional abuse or sexual abuse.
Domestic abuse is like cancer…it is constantly trying to destroy the people involved. It is a pattern of behavior that affect both the abuser and the person being abused. Many who are being abused do not recognize that what is happening in their lives is actually domestic abuse. The reasons for their lack of understanding, or denial are many. (more…)
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Posted in accomplishments, anti-abortion, birth, birthday, children, courage, Dreams, emotions, excitement, family, Fear, goals, grandchildren, joy, kids, life, love, mom, mother, observations, pain and misery, parenting, power, respect, support, values on February 4, 2009|
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Last night was amazing, my daughter gave birth to her third child; without medication. She was powerful and strong. She did not make a peep during the natural labor until the last five minutes when she was in push labor. It is not that she didn’t feel the pain…she did…she just refused to let it dominate her birthing experience. It is natural to be fearful, in pain, stressed, and overwhelmed…but, I did not see that with her. I saw focus and I saw joy and excitement …she was about to meet her child for the first time.
The pregnancy was a bit difficult. Many pregnancies and deliveries are. Sometimes they are traumatic; mothers go through much to bring children into the world. Often, I think that not enough recognition is given to a woman during this time. It is still a miracle and because it has become safer for both mother and child…people forget that things can and do go wrong. It can be a stressful time for both mothers and fathers. Men also sacrifice alot for their children but pregancy and delivery is the beginning of the parenting experience. Fathers need to be encouraged during this time to bond with both the mother and the child during the pregnancy because that is very important to both of the parents…and eventually to the child. It is a strengthening time for the whole family…or it should be anyway!
I watched my daughter, I prayed for her…and i was in awe. I dont believe that i could have done it. This was her largest child. It is also her last pregnancy. I told someone, who was there, that if it wasn’t for the baby trying to come early for the last 2 months; she would make being pregnant and delivering look easy. I know it was a difficult time for her and her family as she is not used to being inactive. It took a team of people to help bring this little one into the world. Her mother -in -law was amazing and she sacrificed much of her time helping; as I live over an hour away. It was greatly appreciated to know that she was giving her care, that i could not provide on a daily basis.
Women have internal strength and personal power that they are often unaware that they possess, until they are tested and pushed beyond what they think they can endure. Men are pretty amazing as well. I watched my son in law as he went pale and struggled while my daughter was plunged into pain…it was a testament to his love for her to see him as he physically went through stress and misery right along with her. Men see and experience things differently than women do. It does not mean they aren’t feeling and being moved…they just show it and express it in different ways. Both men and women have conflicting and complementing skills, strengths, knowledge and for that I also greatful. We are made by God to be each other’s support and strength, and sometimes sounding board.
I love my daughter and I love my daughter in law. I am thankful for their sacrifice to bring my grandchildren into the world. Mothers are amazing…they deserve respect for many things…not the least of which, is the effort it takes to bring a child into the world. I love my mother and I appreciate her and her sacrifice for me and my siblings. I dont think that we can say it enough to our parents that we understand and appreciate them.
Anytime something new is about to be accomplished or born there are great challenges, difficulties, or resistence. It is in the struggle that value is born…the very thing which we are striving to give birth to, or that which we are trying to accomplish, is pitted against the challenges. Is your struggle worth the effort it will take bringing it to life and nurturing it until it is fully formed? I believe it is…whether it is giving physical birth to a child, a dream, a career, or any other goal! What is important enough to you, to overcome the obstacles in your way?
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Posted in abuse, art, courage, crime, death, denial, emotions, Fear, Hate Crimes, history, horror, murder, news, observations, pain and misery, power, sadness, Uncategorized, tagged anniversary, art, artwork, Auschwitz, concentration camps, control, crime, culture, denial, document, Evil, experiments, genocide, halocaust, hatred, heritage, history, horrors, Jews, liberation, misery, observed, prisoners, Remembering, sadness, suffering, torture, tragedy on January 28, 2009|
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Today is a day to remember, it is the 64th anniversary of the liberation of the Jewish people from the concentration camp Auschwitz. It was a day of relief and a day of sadness. Sadness for those who’s lives were lost before they could be rescued…and a day of relief for those who were still alive and had a chance for survival. People want to forget the horrors of the concentration camps…or worse, they deny that it ever existed. The prisoners at the concentration camps were there because of hatred; they were feared and they were hated just because of their heritage. There is no excuse for genocide.
If we are allowed to forget the horror of such evil…it could happen again. If we deny that it ever existed then we are guilty of adding to the evil that took place and destroyed so many people. It is a time of world history that must be observed.
There are some who were there that still have memories of that time. There are some who have loved ones who went through the extreme torture that was the concentration camps. No group of human beings should ever be treated the way that the Jews were treated. We lost so many people that could have added culture, music, craftmanship, business accumen…and so much more to the world. It was and is a tragedy the likes of which we should hope to never see again.
Think about the suffering and the misery that they went through. The fear that consumed the soul. Yet, there were those who resisted, those who aided others by sharing what they had to keep others alive, there were those who tried to hide individuals and help them escape the power of the SS. The word hero is thrown around so often that people misunderstand the courage that it takes to stand strong in the face of evil, and destructive controlling power.
The human spirit is an amazing thing; the will to survive is amazing and can overcome many obstacles. There are many individual stories from the holocaust and it is important to document them when you have the opportunity. I posted an earlier story in this blog about Dina Gottliebova Babbitt, a talented artist who was incarcerated at Auschwitz. She was forced to use her talent to paint individuals and gypsies from the concentration camp for Dr. Josef Mengeles the angel of death who performed terrible “experiments” on those behind the gates.
You can read about her and her efforts to get her artwork returned to her before she passes from this world into the next here: https://writeasrain.wordpress.com/?s=dina+babbit . Do you know any stories of the survivors of the concentration camps?
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Posted in Amazing, armed forces, Blogging, cancer, commitment, communication, courage, Descriptive Words, Dreams, Education, emotions, encouragement, family, fathers, finances, friendship, future, giving, goals, health, Heart, help, hopes, ideas, Impact, inspiration, life, loss, love, media, medical, mental and physical health, mom, mother, news, Opportunities, Passion, publicity, relationships, Remembering, Robin Roberts, science, support, Teamwork, tagged Army of Women, Avon fondation, breast cancer, community, Dr. Susan Love, Education, goals, Good Morning America, health, losses, Pink, prevention, research, Robin Roberts, treatments on January 4, 2009|
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Dr. Susan Love has started a massive undertaking to understand the complexities of breast cancer by organizing an army of women. She has partnered up with the Avon foundation to get an army of women to sign up to do research on a large cross section of women to get accurate information on genetic links as well as environmental links to help the medical community understand breast cancer better…so that we can more effectively treat and PREVENT breast cancer. Check them out: http://www.avoncompany.com/women/avonfoundation/overview.html
She made an announcement on Good Morning America with Robin Roberts (cancer survivor) interviewing her in October of 2008. You can see the interview here: http://abcnews.go.com/Video/playerIndex?id=6118891.
I sort of envision an army of women all decked out in pink camouflage uniforms as they take up the challenge. Breast cancer has stolen too many wonderful people from our world. We have lost sisters, mothers, friends, lovers,aunts, daughters, grandmothers; as well as sons, daughters, fathers, uncles, grandfathers and friends! If we can understand how it starts…then we will be able to figure out ways to prevent it. If we can prevent it…maybe we won’t have to subject our loved ones to such difficult times during treatments. It is a win-win situation. You can learn more about Dr. Susan Love and about breast cancer by going here: http://www.dslrf.org/breastcancer/content.asp?L2=1&SID=119
Many people want to help…but, if they dont have money to give; they may say how can I possibly help? This is an excellent way. You can sign up to be a part of the army. If nothing else….you can get information to help arm yourself in the war on breast cancer. You can go here to sign up: http://www.armyofwomen.org/ Surely you would like to see an end to breast cancer as we know it!
See possibly related stories here: https://writeasrain.wordpress.com/2008/08/27/stand-up-to-cancer/ or, https://writeasrain.wordpress.com/2008/03/19/triple-negative-breast-cancer/
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Posted in art, children, courage, death, denial, history, husband, illustrations, inspiration, life, loss, murder, pain and misery, service, support, talent, tagged Angel of Death, animator, Art Babbitt, artist, Auschwitz, bravery, Burkenau State Museum, children, concentration camp, death, desire, Dina Gottliebova Babbitt, Dr. Josef Mengeles, experiments, freedom, God, gypsies, history, holocaust, human rights, marriage, mother, paintings, portraits, Seven Dwarfs, Snow White, spirit, surgery, survivors, talents, U. S. citizen, watercolors on January 1, 2009|
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Dina Gottliebova Babbitt is a woman who has a rich history; she was in the concentration camp, Auschwitz with her mother in 1944. Dina was a 20 something, young woman who had an artistic talent. She had been an art student before she was sent to Auschwitz. While in the camp, she decided to do something daring and she painted Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs on the walls of the children’s barracks, in an attempt to cheer them up. This was bravery, as the consequences would be severe if she was caught.
When it was discovered what she had done…she was called before Dr. Mengele who was also known as the Angel of Death in the camp. She could have been sent to the gas chamber like so many others were. Instead, she was ordered by Dr. Josef Mengele to paint portraits for him of the gypsies in the camp; as well as, to draw pictures of the many horrible “medical experiments” that he performed on those who were imprisoned in the camp. Dina thought for many years that the portraits of the gypsies were destroyed. It was in performing the artwork in the camp that her life and that of her mother were spared.
In fact the portraits were not destroyed…they were sold to the Auschwitz-Burkenau State Museum after the war ended. There are seven watercolor portraits of the gypsies; and, Dina Babbitt would like them returned. Dina says that she feels that neither she, nor the gypsies can have spiritual freedom unless the portraits are returned to her. I would imagine that Dina poured her soul into those portraits. After all, how can you look upon such individuals, knowing their probable fate, and trace their very visage upon the canvas; and, not be one with them in spirit? She has much support internationally; however, at this point, the museum allegedly refuses to return them. You can write to the museum here in support of Dina: email@example.com .
You can also visit Dina’s website to learn more about her and see some of her work here: http://www.dinababbitt.com/ .
After WWII, Dinah was hired as an assistant to Art Babbitt who was working for Warner Brother’s in Paris at the time; and, who was a former Disney animator who worked on Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs. They fell in love and later married, Dina was Art’s second wife. Together they raised two daughters, Michele and Karin. At least some good came out of such an evil time in history. Their love and marriage I am sure brought about a healing balm. After all, Dina used the images of the talented animator to soothe the young children, who daily faced death daily in the concentration camps. It is as if God himself sent a bit of the comforter to them thru Dina and the artistry of two talented artists.
Dina was born on January 21, 1923 in Czechoslovakia, but, is now a U.S. citizen. Just as recently as this past summer of 2008, Dina was diagnosed with an aggressive tumor in her abdomin and was scheduled to have surgery performed to remove it. It is her most fervent desire to have her portraits returned to her so that she can hold them in her hands one more time before she passes away. She would like to see the portraits visit the Holocaust museums in the United States! Please feel free to contact her family to help support their cause of the return the portraits to a woman who risked much to bring a smile to the children of Auschwitz; here is an email address: firstname.lastname@example.org or email@example.com .
This time in history can never be forgotten or denied. If by looking into the faces of the victims of the concentration camps helps to make it real…then Dina Gottliebova Babbitt has used her talents in a very serviceable way. Those portraits bring the horrible cost of forgetting that those who are different from us are still human and deserve to live life to it’s fullest. It should not be up to another individual or organization to get to decide who should live and who should die. We must uphold the lessons learned from setting back and waiting for the world to right itself in the area of human rights. May the powers that be bring Dina’s portraits home to her, to soothe her heart and her soul.
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