You may have noticed that I haven’t posted here in a few days…I have moved; that is my big news. I sure would love it if you would come and see me at my new environment. It will look familiar to you, it will still feel comfortable and yet, because change is change…it will be a little bit different. I will still write about all that is going on in the world, my observations and opinions. I had to move and expand my wings. Come and see me anyway; relationships are no fun when it is only one -sided…if i write…who will read? http://www.writewhereyouareblog.com I miss your company and your comments on my blog!!!
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Posted in accomplishments, attitude, Blogging, Celebration, communication, joy, news, observations, online traffic, opinion, writing, tagged blog, Blogging, celebrate, comments, communicte, family, interesting, joy, jumping, life, news, point of view, readers, rock, view, world on March 4, 2009| Leave a Comment »
Thanks to all of the faithful readers, this blog is now celebrating 91,000 visitors! You guys rock…thanks for being interested in what goes on in the world. Thanks for sharing your points of view on the latest news, events, and life’s happenings. You the readers are the best part of blogging. Appreciate the comments that inform, observe the world, and communicate your opinions in a family friendly manner. The world is an interesting place, dont ya think?
Posted in cancer, charitable organizations, denial, emotions, Fame, family, Fear, finances, grief, health, life, loss, media, medical, mental and physical health, MONEY, news, pain and misery, RobinRoberts, sadness, spiritual, tagged advocate, awareness, BRCA1 gene, cancer survivors, Christina Applegate, comments, discouragement, early detection, encouragement, experts, fallopian tubes, family history, genetic testing, Good Morning America, hostility, interview, loss, mastectomy, MRI's, negativity, ovaries, platform, prostrate cancer, protein, reconstructive surgery, researchers, Robin Roberts, skeptical, Stand Up To Cancer, suppressing tumors, surgery, thief on August 19, 2008| 1 Comment »
Today the interview with Christina Applegate aired which told of her diagnosis of breast cancer…she apparently has the breast cancer gene BRCA1. She seems very upbeat and proactive in her approach. Her mother is a breast cancer survivor…so, Christina has been getting testing since she was thirty years old…she is 36 now. So she knew early on that she was to remain vigilant in her testing because of family history. This is a good thing because she was able to be diagnosed very early.
Christina chose to be very proactive and had a double mastectomy. It sounds as though people with BRCA1 are at more of a risk of developing cancer in the fallopian tubes, ovaries, or the prostrate. It is thought that with the BRCA1 gene (there are over 600 mutations that researchers have discovered) that it some how develops a protein that doesn’t work properly to suppress tumor development.
In reading some of the comments left on ABC’s website in regards to the interview Robin Roberts did with Christina…some of the people were skeptical of her declaring herself 100% cancer free. Many of the commenters are cancer survivors who also thought themselves free of cancer and they have been through multiple levels of treatment and surgeries. If it is an encouragement to herself then, so what? Encouragement and discouragement are seperated by just a breadth of a hair width! I think the consensus is that after only a month; some of them felt it was irresponsible of her to say that she is cancer free. While i understand that it is a milestone for her to say that and feel it…it is important to also remind people…that being cancer free after a bout with cancer is about remaining vigilant; about testing, and, about follow up with proper medical advice and guidance. Christina is not an ignorant person…she is just choosing to focus on the positives of the moment. What cancer patient doesn’t try to do that? It is a survival skill to be thankful for the positive things in a negative situation!
Some of the commentors were just a little shy of hostility…some, i think were hinting that she is in denial…there were also, well wishers. What i liked when i heard the interview, was that Christina is pledging to work towards raising funds to go towards funding genetic testing and MRI’s, for those who can’t afford it, which is extremely helpful in early detection. She is also going to be involved in a televised special called “Stand Up To Cancer” which will include many “stars”. Raising awareness and funds, i believe will be the goal.
One thing to remind ourselves of, is that cancer doesn’t discriminate between people of wealth and those who have none. It is an equal opportunity destroyer. However, finances can make all of the difference in diagnosis, treatment; and, the ability to eat right to heal; as well as, having enough money to afford insurance and transportation to and from medical appointments. This is all real life issues for people around the world.
Let’s remember for Christina, this is all new…she just had the surgery 3 weeks ago. If she is choosing to be hopeful and positive that is a good thing. Yes, to be fair…not everyone has the money to get the diagnostic testing available to her…nor, are most people able to get surgery scheduled so quickly and have “experts” on treatment available for immediate consultation. Let’s not begrudge her, or anyone, that blessing.
Christina is saying that she will have reconstructive surgery and have “cute boobs when she is 90”. Many people don’t have the funds for that either…Christina is blessed and i think she is aware of that. It is unfortunate that we all don’t have that financial blessing as well. In an ideal world, any person afflicted with the disease would be able to choose treatment and reconstruction without regard for cost; unfortunately, it is sad that it is not so!
It is hard enough going through diagnosis, treatment and the physical and emotional ups and downs without being able to have reconstruction surgery if you want it. Grieving the loss of your breasts is very natural but, if you want the reconstructive surgery and can’t afford it; it only adds to the pain and loss. Healing is more than body; it is mind and spirit as well. Christina will understand that in giving interviews, sensitivity directed towards other patients who aren’t as blessed financially is important too. Of course, none of us knows what was edited out of the interview, by others, because of time constraints…all i am saying is, give benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise. Here is a link to a foundation that Christina is behind: http://www.rightactionforwomen.org/
What Christina has going for her is her youth, early diagnosis, family support, and a platform to educate young women that they are at risk even though they are young. I say, don’t bring doom and gloom on her for how she handles her health. Yes, she can educate in a variety of ways…and as long as she has a platform; she needs to do her best to pass accurate information on to others if she is going to address the issue. It is wise to point out, that she says she was not ready to go public with the information about her battle with breast cancer…but as always…rogue media was breaking the news and they were also publishing random rumors, many without truth. She felt the need to correct those.
People should have a right to privacy if they choose it in regards to their personal private health information. As she adjusts to the changes in her life, she has the ability to be an amazing advocate for cancer patients. In the meantime, wish her well…help her fund-raise to educate, inform, and enable those who cannot afford genetic testing and MRI’s which both can be very expensive and exclude many patients from taking advantage of them.
Life is too short to spread negativity…in your own life as well as the lives of others. Cancer is a thief and has stolen enough from us all…let’s channel energy into fighting the real enemy…Cancer! See also: https://writeasrain.wordpress.com/2008/08/18/christina-applegate-robin-roberts-interview/ or topic related to breast cancer: https://writeasrain.wordpress.com/2008/03/19/triple-negative-breast-cancer/ or https://writeasrain.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/women-are-dying-for-size-of-level-d-when-it-comes-to-breasts/
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Well, today was the day…it was the first year anniversary of the starting of this blog. What started out as a way to build confidence in myself and my writing skills turned into a real relationship with myself and the news around me. It has been fun…it has been educational; and, it has been a way to document what goes on in the world around me; and, helps me understand how i interpet those issues.
So much has happened in the last year, that to remind myself, of the ups and downs…I just go back and read random blog posts. The postings remind me of current events that have happened, celebrity happenings, life changing events; and in general, all of the emotional ups and downs involved in daily living. At times, i think…did i write that…do i still feel the same way about that subject…is there more current information than I had at the time i wrote the post? Sometimes i update the posts with current information if it is important to the post. (more…)
Posted in Beauty, death, emergency, health, hospital, surgery, tagged breast, comments, controversy, criticisim, death, family, judged, medical profession, plastic surgery, reaction, self esteem, vanity on March 31, 2008| 1 Comment »
I read a sad story this past week about a beautiful, 18 year old young woman who had CORRECTIVE BREAST SURGERY and died from complications of the surgery at a Florida hospital. The young woman had physical problems with her breasts, which is why she was having the surgery in the first place. The reason that she died is because she allegedy had a rare type of reaction from the anestheisia; from what news reports i read.
Some of the comments that readers of the article submitted were not only negative; but, actually condemed the young woman for having the surgery in the first place. Understand, the was a medically CORRECTIVE, procedure. She was not correcting a previous plastic surgery…it was to correct physical/medical issues.
Many of the comments made were putting the young woman down. I wonder, if the young woman was having surgery to remove an appendix or some such other medical procedure; if she would be judged in the same way. Or, is she criticized because the surgery was plastic surgery in nature; were they assuming she was trying to increase her cup size only? There is a large segment of the population that is “gifting” their teenagers with plastic surgeries because they desire it and because it boosts their self esteem. This is very controversial issue.
I personally feel that those who were harsh about her surgery and subsequent death were making an assumption that this surgery was about vanity as opposed to what she felt was a necessary procedure.
It seems, according to the articles that i read, that the rare reaction to the anestheisia runs in the young lady’s family. When they have surgery with the anestheisia their bodies go into a very high temperature and reacts in a way that can cause death.
Unfortunately, there is no way to know ahead of time if a person’s body will react this way; until, there is a reaction. Still, it does seem like there should have been at least a heads up notification to the medical personel doing the procedure; and maybe there was for all any of us know. Still, it is a tragedy; this young lady wanted to grow up and be a part of the medical profession herself.