Posted in accomplishments, attitude, coaching, communication, denial, disaster, Dreams, emotions, encouragement, failure, Faith, family, Fear, finances, friendship, Frustration, future, goals, help, hopes, inspiration, life, loss, news, observations, of connections, opinion, pain and misery, relationships, self doubt, spiritual, success, support, trauma, values, tagged approach, attitude, attitudes, challenges, circumstances, cons, consequences, coping, cross roads, defeat, depression, determination, direction, emotional, experiences, feelings, goals, internal, journey, layers, life, loss, negative, negativity, negotiation, obstacles, Opportunities, overcoming, physical, positive, problem, professional, pros, purpose, self esteem, self-reflection, solutions, spiritual, spiritual beliefs, success, trauma, triumph, values on February 25, 2009|
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I have been observing alot of situations in the news and in the events that happen around me…I’ve come to the conclusion that the secret in overcoming any challenges or events in life has to be in deciding not to let any circumstances or event define the rest of your life. I think a person’s attitude or determination is the key factor.
Have you ever known someone who has gotten stuck in life? You know…the the type of person who just can’t seem to be able to get past a certain event, challenge or obstacle? It is a person who dwells on all of the lost opportunities in life; any negative situations they have encountered, the after-effects or consequences from a trauma or difficulty that they have faced; events that have been a cross road in their life. We all have them; so what determines who overcomes and who seems to be buried under a load of defeat? (more…)
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Posted in accomplishments, Blogging, Business, communication, life, news, observations, tagged accomplishments, achievement, blog, Blogging, Business, communication, determination, goals, interest, marketer, Michael Penland, milestone, observe, opinions, topped expectations, traffic, traffic jam, viewpoint, visitors on October 17, 2008|
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Who hates getting stuck in a traffic jam? Yeah, me too…unless it is with my blog; then, i absolutely love, love, love traffic. I am thrilled to be to say, that with the next 10 visitors; I will have had 56,000 visitors to this blog in exactly 15 months (minus two days) 🙂 That is totally cool! Now, if only I was a marketer and had something to sell…hmmm…i could be fairly well up to my eyeballs with nickels and dimes, don’t ya think? Too funny, as I have no business interest, other than writing that is.
Anyway…i was just so excited to share this very important update, lol…that i couldn’t wait for those last ten visitors to appear. I remember just a few short weeks ago, announcing on a teleseminar with Michael Penland, that i was about to hit 51,000 visitors; and, that was on August 30th–that is only 6 short weeks ago!!! https://writeasrain.wordpress.com/2008/08/30/doing-something-new-is-scary/
Wow, that’s 5,000 visitors in six weeks. Every new blogging milestone far out-distances any goals that i have ever set for myself. Imagine what an individual could do when they go about setting their sights on a goal with determination to achieve it!!! Mind blowing to a girl who’s only goal was to set about being disciplined and writing every day; when possible…and trying to document the world as i observe it, in my own way. Maybe i need to raise my expectations for myself; set a new goal or accomplishment to achieve. I will have to think on that…what do i need to focus on or do with my writing that is different?
I guess it just illustrates the need to connect…and communicate; human beings share so many things in common with one another. We all have opinions on the things that go on around us; maybe you have something to write about that someone else wants or needs to hear?
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Posted in accomplishments, Beauty, commitment, courage, Descriptive Words, Dreams, emotions, encouragement, failure, Faith, Frustration, goals, life, Opportunities, Passion, self doubt, sports, stress, success, support, well-being, tagged accomplishments, adversity, balance, barriers, determination, diet, encouragement, failure, goals, hard work, lifestyle, mind set, mountains, perspective, positivity, reward on May 30, 2008|
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I don’t know who this is for…but, i felt compelled to write it today. If you are struggling to accomplish a goal…and are climbing your way to the top; and, you think you are almost there, as you breech the clear white peak of the hill, expecting the celebration of your victory, only to find another hill; that adversity can cause you to stop, dead in your tracks… to give up.
Don’t do it; find another way to make it happen. What did I say and why did I say that? Don’t take the time to wallow in your disappointments…it is a waste of time and energy. You will only succeed in making yourself more miserable. Instead, pick yourself up off of the rocky ground where you threw yourself in a dramatic heap and consider whether it is better to backtrack down that slippery slope; or, better to climb the next hill and fully expect to find your victory.
If the goal that you are trying to achieve is a positive one…give it another shot…dig in with courage; and, focus your determination on meeting that goal. If you discover upon some healthy self-reflection that your goal is rooted in negativity…give it some thought …maybe you can redirect the goal into a positive direction.
Sometimes, we give up just short of accomplishing our goals, only to find out that what looked like a mountain range of barriers, was simply, just another set of small hills. There are times when you just need to look at the issue again from a different perspective.
Take a deep breath, surround yourself with positive, encouraging people, get some balance in your diet and your lifestyle; go to sleep and wake up to a new day and a new mind set…begin anew…notice the pastel sunrise; feel the crisp morning air as you take the first step of the day.
This time around, find ways to enjoy the beauty of the journey along the way. You will be surprised how much easier your struggles become when you find beauty and gratitude in your climb to the top of the hill.
You can do it; whatever you set your mind up to do. If you set your mind on giving up… and failure is your goal, that is easily accomplished too. Hang in there just a little while longer; you will be glad that you did…the reward for all of your hard work is waiting to greet you!
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Posted in commitment, courage, crime, emotions, Faith, Family Time, Fear, health, Heart, help, inspiration, joy, life, loneliness, loss, medical, mental and physical health, mother, news, pain and misery, Remembering, resilient, sadness, safety, self doubt, sick and tired, stress, success, support, trauma, violence, well-being, tagged 24 years, abuse, Austrian, birth, challenges, children, depression, destruction, determination, devastation, Elizabeth Fritzl, father, fearlessly, freedom, fully, healing, health, human spirit, joy, life, mother, negativity, neglect, obstacles, oppression, overcoming, past, personal, prison, professional help, psychiatry, relationships, resilience, suicide, survival, therapy, victimized, victory, well-being on May 15, 2008|
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For those of you who have been depressed, despondent, abused, neglected, suicidal, victimized or just oppressed; know this, the human spirit is subject to change at any moment…it is resilient. The absolutely amazing thing about going through any of those difficulties in life, is that it has the potential of either destroying a person, or strengthening them, like steel that has gone through the heat of a fire.
What causes a person to either become submerged under the weight of negative influences; or, to spring up and bounce back even stronger ?
I believe it is a combination of things. We are all products of our past; we have been taught many things throughout our childhoods and young adulthood that influences how we perceive things. Most of those things are unconscious and basically invisible, but, still they are there; determining how we interpet the challenges in life; and, therefore, how we handle those same challenges. We have to make a personal committment to ourselves to change the direction our lives are going if we wish to live a life that is full of the good things life has to offer.
If we have been lucky enough to have a strong healthy foundation during those formative years we have a huge headstart. If we were instead rooted in poor soil and unhealthy relationships during those years; we often have alot to overcome.
It is not impossible to overcome those things. It is by strength of will and determination that we learn how to channel our inner self to go in the direction of love, health, and personal well-being. It is a matter of retraining how we think about things and learning not to focus on the obstacles and the negativity that surrounds us on a daily basis.
I was reminded of these things today, when i read about Elizabeth Fritzl, the young Austrian woman held captive by her father in a basement for 24 years. She was forced to endure loneliness, sexual abuse, emotional damage and physical confinement. She was raped repeatedly by her father and gave birth to seven children during this time. They grew up without “normal” human interaction.
At this point they are receiving treatment in a psychiatric facility. The family is getting help learning how to bond together; how to communicate with others, how to function outside of their basement prison. Elizabeth, the mother of the children grew up at home, with her mother and father…until she was 18 years old. At that point, he forced her to live in the basement while explaining her “disappearance” to the rest of the world by saying that she had run off to join a cult.
Elizabeth and her children are bouncing back in amazing ways. One would think that they might never recover. After all, some of them didn’t speak as we know speaking; they communicated with grunts and noises. However, they survived against all odds. Their healing and renewal will happen with good guidance and therapy. It should be encouraging to us all that the human spirit is resilient; it is meant to sustain us in times of devastation.
At some point in life we have to “choose” to overcome the negative forces that have gone before and “decide” to grow, heal, strengthen; and, claim victory over the things in life that hold us back from who we were created to be. It is work, it isn’t easy and often professional help is necessary; but, it is so worth it to have the freedom to once again live life fearlessly, and fully, with joy!
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