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Posted in abuse, anger, attitude, birth, celebrity, charity, children, commitment, communication, compassion, control, courage, crime, culture, denial, domestic violence, Education, emotions, Fame, family, Fear, friendship, Frustration, grandchildren, health, Heart, help, Impact, kids, law enforcement, leadership, legal, life, loneliness, loss, love, loyalty, medical, mental and physical health, MONEY, news, observations, opinion, pain and misery, parenting, power, relationships, respect, safety, self doubt, support, teens, trauma, trust, tagged abused, abuser, awakening, beatings, celebrity, child, children, compassion, control, counselors, cycle of abuse, danger, denial, dependency, destroy, domestic abuse, donations, drug/alcohol abuse, Education, embarassment, emotional abuse, escalation, family, Fear, financial, freedom, friend, grandchildren, healthy relationships, help, intervention, intimidation, isolation, job loss, learned behaviors, loyalty, MONEY, neighbor, parent, parenting, parents, patterns of behavior, police, professionals, reasons, relationships, responses, safety, safety plan, secrets, self esteem, sexual abuse, shame, shelters, sibling, skills, support, tax dollars, threatened, Time, treatment, triggers, trust, unhealthy, used cell phones, verbal abuse, victim, violence on March 12, 2009| 1 Comment »
This subject is never a pleasant one. No one likes to acknowledge domestic abuse is a way of life…especially if it is happening within their own life. Unfortunately, domestic abuse happens every day in a multitude of ways. It doesn’t just happen in the lives of the poor, the rich, or the celebrity world; even though, that is often the stories that we hear about…those who are famous. We must awaken to the facts of domestic abuse; it is often learned behaviors that are used to control another person…either with intimidation, physical violence, emotional abuse or sexual abuse.
Domestic abuse is like cancer…it is constantly trying to destroy the people involved. It is a pattern of behavior that affect both the abuser and the person being abused. Many who are being abused do not recognize that what is happening in their lives is actually domestic abuse. The reasons for their lack of understanding, or denial are many. (more…)
Posted in accomplishments, attitude, charity, children, commitment, culture, emotions, encouragement, Faith, giving, inspiration, legal, life, love, observations, responsibility, service, spiritual, tagged abilities, attitude, Bible, caregiving, emotions, family, fulfilled, funding, God, instructions, knowledge, legal, limits, moral, needs, Opportunities, personal, poor, priviledge, responsibilities, road map, servants, service, skills, society, spirituality, successful, truth, wants, widows on February 1, 2009| Leave a Comment »
Do you ever wonder what your personal responsibilities are? I mean, most people understand that they must work, take care of their children, nuture their personal relationships, and pay their bills; what else is there? Being a responsible person is a way of life; are you required to take care of others outside the close personal limits of your immediate family? Who and what are you responsible for? Are there limits to your responsibilty legally, physically, spiritually, emotionally or morally?
Have you ever heard the saying, “Are you your brother’s keeper”? Human beings are complex creatures. We have layers of self, one upon the other…each with their own wants and needs. For those who are spiritual seekers of truth; there are teachings which encourage us to reach beyond the demands of our own personal flesh-n- blood, wants and needs. My road map is the Bible. Everything i need to know to be a successful and fulfilled person is included in that instruction manual.
God wants us to follow his leading; we are to grow and learn how to praise him and serve others. This is not always convienent in today’s society, according to the world’s values. That attitude of becoming a servant requires a bit of sacrifice on our part. Many people run from their own responsibilities and refuse to accept that they have a moral responsibility to reach out to others. And there are others who do not consider themselves spiritual beings who still manage to be service minded…realizing that there is value to connecting with and recognizing need in others.
Understand, I am not talking about enabling others to continue to be irresponsible…but instead, teaching and inspiring others to take up the challenge of meeting their own obligations when they are able. To do that, they must be inspired, they must have knowledge, skills, opportunities and funding…once that happens, they too can become a servant to pass it on to others.
Responsibility is something that we must strive for. When everything is going smoothly…it is because we have acknowledged our responsibilities and have submitted ourselves to the service of God.
God says that we are to take care of the widows and the children; we are to befriend the poor. When we see suffering in the world and we have the ability, the skill, the opportunity to help ,then we must consider it a priviledge and a responsibility to do so. What are you willing to do for those around you? Do you know someone who has a need? Can you listen when someone needs to talk, can you spend time with someone who is lonely, are you capable of performing a chore that someone else cant do and needs done?
There are so many ways to be of service to another fellow human being…it is simply a matter of being aware and observing those around you and being willing to be helpful. People in need are all around us…it will change your life to see the world through the eye and heart of a servant of God.
Posted in celebrity, competition, dance, Dancing With The Stars, tagged Brooke Burke, Dancing With The Stars, entertainment, finale, Lance Bass, skills, television, viewers, Warren Sapp, winner on November 26, 2008| Leave a Comment »
Dancing with the Stars finale is tonight. I can’t wait to find out who is the winner of this season. It is a highly contested win…because even though Brooke Burke is the expected winner because of her consistent performances…Lance Bass is the late bloomer; he really ramped up his skills in the last three weeks or so…then there is Warren Sapp…who is admitedly the least skilled dancer; however, Warren has the heart of the viewers.
Brooke and her partner Dereck took perfect 10’s last night in one of their performances…but, as we all know…the viewers have the ultimate input when it comes to the outcome of the final scores. It truly is anybody’s trophy tonight. It could be a shocker as to who takes the top scores.
In any case, the show will be outstanding. The entertainment value alone will be worth the watch. Miley Cyrus will be performing tonight. I totally expect the ratings for tonight’s show to go through the roof!
Update: Brooke Burke and Dereck Hough are the champions. Lance Bass & partner Lacey Schwimmer took third place and Warren Sapp and Kym Johnson stood under the hot lights sweating it out until the winners were announced. Congratulations to all of the contestants for their dedication and persistence!
Posted in anger, children, death, elderly, emotions, family, grief, Impact, legal, life, loss, medical, mental and physical health, news, relationships, respect, safety, teens, tagged ability, anger, court, death, decision making, disabled, discussion, distracted drivers, drinking, driver's license, drivers, driving, drugging, drunk, elderly, freedom, ill, impairments, irresponsible, jail, legal responsibility, medications, priviledge, reaction time, reckless, relationships, respect, responsible, road rage, safety, skills, teen on September 23, 2008| Leave a Comment »
Did you ever stop to think about the ways in which a driver can be impaired? I mean besides the obvious impairment of drinking or drugging, and then driving? I read a very sad news story recently about an elderly driver who ran a stop sign and killed another person. That elderly man has recently had to go before the court on charges of killing another human being.
Did that driver intentionally kill the other person; no, he did not. However, it is alleged that because of his age…his driving skill was impaired. It is said that his reaction time was greatly diminished and he should never have been driving. This man is in his 90’s and will possibly, upon sentencing…be serving time in jail. He didn’t mean to cause the death…but still, someone else’s loved one died.
It is a fine line in knowing when a persons driving is impaired because of age, disability, irresponsibility, or illness. I think about all of the young men and women who have physical or mental disability who see their peers hitting the milestone of turning 16 and getting their driver’s licenses. I know their heart aches to do the same.
It is up to the parents to decide when and if their child is able to drive and make appropriate choices when doing so; whether that child is disabled or not. If they are disabled physically, emotionally, or mentally; and, it will impair their driving skill…it is up to the parents to withhold the priviledge of driving. It is hard to deny them that priviledge but sometimes necessary. It is better to have them dissappointed or angry than to have them dead or causing the death of another person.
The same holds true when it comes to being the adult child of a parent who is past the ability to drive safely. No one really wants to give up their freedom to drive when they have done so throughout their adult years…but, when an elderly person has gotten to the point to where their driving skills are in question…it usually falls to the adult child to have a discussion about giving up the right to drive. Maybe there is a medical condition that causes concern…or a medication that hinders safe driving. Precautions must be taken for everyone’s sake. This is a delicate subject; care must be given to not treat the person as a child. Alternatives have to be considered for how that elderly person is going to come and go in their everyday lives. Think about how they feel…get their input on how to resolve the situation.
That is not an easy conversation to have with an elderly parent. It is not an easy conversation to have with a child who has disabilities. It is not an easy conversation to have with anyone who is impaired by anything that affects the drivers safety or the safety of others on the road…yet, it is a conversation that must take place if you care about that person.
Back to the elderly person in the news who now bears the responsibility of having taken a life with his driving. The picture of that man in the police booking photo would break your heart. It is the picture of a broken man. It is terribly sad to look at that photo and put anyone that you care about in that picture frame. It is sadder yet for the person who lost a loved one to such a situation.
Please take the time to evaluation the decision to allow the people you care about to drive. If your teen wants to drive but makes reckless decisions…wait a while longer until they prove more responsible. They might be angry…but at least they wont be in the position of that elderly man. If your disabled loved one is not ready to drive…don’t let them just because they are of age. It is a burden they might not be ready for. If you know someone who is consummed with road rage…talk to them about not driving. If you know someone who is constantly distracted on the road…they should not be driving. If your aged love one is past the age of safe driving; and, is making mistakes on the road…have that conversation with them in a caring way. Respect them…but, be sure to explain your concerns. Take their feelings into account and think about how you want to be treated in the same situation when the time comes.
It is hard…but, if you know that accidents are happening that shouldn’t; and, you don’t do or say anything to them…and something horrible happens…can you live with the consequences of death or jail time that will affect that person?
Posted in Advocating for special needs, Amazing, cancer, charity, chemo, children, commitment, communication, culture, death, Education, emotions, encouragement, entertainment, Faith, family, Fear, future, giving, grief, health, Heart, Heart to heart, help, history, Impact, life, mental and physical health, news, tagged ABC, awareness, CBS, celebrities, committment, death, development, disease, donate, entertainment, experimental therapy, fight, funds, history, Impact, journalists, life, lives, losses, MONEY, music, NBC, news, one life per minute, raise, Raised $100 million dollars, research, rob, skills, song, Stand Up 2 Cancer, statistics, stories, talents, television networks, Time, you tube on September 5, 2008| Leave a Comment »
Tonight there is going to be a historic program on television called Stand Up 2 Cancer on the major television networks, ABC<NBC<CBS. They are working together in an unprecedented event to raise awareness and funds to fight the fight against cancer. It is an amazing effort, which was planned to be the beginning of the end, of the horrible plaque on the earth called cancer.
The statistics are horrendous…we lose one person per minute or 1,500 people a day to cancer…that is unacceptable. Join the program tonight starting at 8pm on the major networks…will be journalists, music, celebrities and stories that will amaze you. Please stop what you are doing and make a commitment to be a part of history and join the effort to bring an end to cancer. Dig deep and pledge money, pledge awareness, pledge your time, skills, talents; and, more importantly pledge to care! We have lost too much… lost too many people to allow this disease to continue to rob us of those lives. Each of those who were lost has family, friends, communities who feel cheated. It could be you or one of your friends or family members next…please get involved in the fight to stand up 2 cancer!
I love this song…how to save a life…http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3cqJJ-u0nog&NR=1 You can help save lives by watching and committing to the battle to stand up to cancer tonight at 8 pm on the three major television networks. Be there if you dare to make an impact! Update: StandUp2Cancer raised over $100 million dollars for research and development of experimental therapy for cancer patients! Just amazing what can happen when people join together for the good of mankind.